Live, Love, and Suffer: The Lived Experiences of Trans Women Parents with Children in Cebu
Hans Bacus | Christine Silvery Herames | Sean Joseph Solibaga | Roque Luis Manuel Villamor | John Stephen Cimafranca | Diana Marie Talens | Sarah Jean Maghanoy | Flordeliza Gagani
Discipline: personal development
Abstract:
Parenthood entails daunting responsibilities, even more so if parents are
of a different gender spectrum such as trans women. Against a rigid heteronormative society, this phenomenological study explored the challenges
and the struggles, as well as the coping mechanisms, of the trans-women
parents in Metro Cebu, Philippines. Through Husserlian’s descriptive phenomenology, five participants were chosen through snowball sampling to
share their experiences through in-depth interviews in 2023. Utilizing Colaizzi’s method of data analysis, the study revealed seven (7) recurring
themes: (1) Financial Instability; (2) Societal Acceptance; (3) Shifting Family Dynamics; (4) Lack of Legal Government Protection; (5) Employment
Possibilities; (6) Perseverance; and (7) Communication. These findings
provided insights into the lives of trans-women parents in the Philippines
and offered recommendations for policies that could help address the issues faced by this sub-group of parents. Moreover, this study served as a
contribution to the literature on non-heteronormative families through the
lived experiences of trans-women parents in a heteronormative society
like the Philippines.
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